He notices that you’re really listening to him and that you’re engaging with him about things that he cares about – and that draws him closer to you. When you do that, two very important things happen.įirst, like I said before – he starts to bond with you. If you want him to bond with you and become more intimate with you, connect with him where he’s most happy and excited to share with you. More: Here’s more on how to be a good listener for him They don’t bond with someone and then open up to them, opening up to you is how a guy bonds. Guys will bond with people who they feel that they can share anything with. What I’m sharing are the things that you can do with a guy to make him feel a deep personal connection to you – that will make him want to bring your lives closer together.
Obviously, I’m not saying that you should just listen to him and whatever he says at the expense of expressing yourself – that’s ridiculous. Those people can be effectively invisible to you.įor the people who will be attracted to you, be the best and most attractive version of yourself that you can be.ĭoing what you can to be the most attractive version of you possible is only going to increase your options, increase your power, and increase your effectiveness with attracting the person you ultimately want to attract. When it comes to attraction, you don’t have to worry about people who aren’t attracted to you. This planet is filled with different kinds of men who all have different kinds of tastes and preferences for what they find attractive.Ī big mistake that women make is that they try to become a certain image of attractiveness that may or may not be them, instead of the most attractive version of themselves. More importantly: there’s no reason to get angry… no matter who you are or what you look like this can be a huge opportunity for you. I realize that some people might get angry when I say that, but I have to say it because I want you to be successful.
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